Showing posts with label Relationships. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Relationships. Show all posts

Wednesday, November 30, 2011

Big Hairy Audacious Goals Versus The Devils You Know



Bill Taylor’s HBR Blog post today -- “Don’t Let What You Know Limit What You Imagine” -- strikes at the heart of a strategic planning challenge for professional service organizations in today’s marketplace.  Begin with bright business minds, add expertise and deep experience, blend with volatility, unpredictability and a touch of fear, and you have a recipe that can result in the devils we know defining the way we think, act and communicate.
You know the saying -- Be careful...the devil you know may end up being better than the one you don’t know.
When much is at stake -- not to mention those moments when crisis looms -- the desire to study history, examine the past, and leverage experience is understandable.  The great challenge -- in fact, one of the things that differentiates those who actually inspire, innovate and change the future from would-be leaders -- is balanced perspective.

Case in point — as the father of a soon to be 20-year old daughter, it’s difficult for me not to speak completely out of personal experience when I offer advice on dating.  ”I know exactly how immature boys your age are because I was one!”  Few would dispute that my perspective is rooted in fact.  But the problem (apart from the fact that my target audience has limited interest in this message) is that this one-dimensional perspective does little to facilitate progress.

What does this have to do with organizational thinking, planning and communication?  Simply this: without exception, when couched and “toned” only by data points of the past, an organization’s mindset, planning and message will lack dimension, limit vision, and seed faulty action.
Absent a perspective that allows for (and prompts) vision, communication is either a recitation of history or an account of current conditions. If that data is less than stellar the chances are great that the devils we know have far too much influence.
Consider this: had the framework for Abraham Lincoln’s Gettysburg Address or poetic Second Inaugural been couched in the reality of recent history, or even the moment, his speeches would simply have decried the nation’s condition, and mourned those yet to die. Instead, Lincoln used the past to give birth to a new vision.
Had Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. addressed the throng gathered on the Mall in Washington, D.C. speaking only out of experience, the “I have a dream” refrain would never have passed his lips.
And in the wake of the USSR having won the race to orbit the earth, President Kennedy dared to stir the US with an unthinkable vision — to put a man on the moon.
Take a look at what these examples have in common.
  • They do not gloss over or ignore the realities of the past;
  • They broaden perspective;
  • They speak of possibilities for the future;
  • They call for participation.
Put another way — what Lincoln, King and Kennedy did was transcend data, and seed a vision. Some might suggest that known data points and vision represent opposite perspectives — that the former is grounded in fact and the later is right-side-of-the-brain creativity at its best . . . spin at worst. Yet, pivotal moments are often marked by the communication of a leader who, unprepared for the past to define the future, is able to articulate a new view of the horizon.

Pivotal moments — whether in commerce, social enterprise, political endeavors and even personal adventure – come when decision makers understand that most of us are anxious to be done with the devils we have known.  We simply need someone to help us with the vision of what might be.
Most of us are still stirred by a dream -- by the challenge inherent in what Jim Collins called Big Hairy Audacious Goals.

Thursday, November 24, 2011

Pausing To Remember What Really Matters



(This is a reprise of a Post from December 2010. An idea worth reconsidering today. Happy Thanksgiving, All.)

Some things simply are not important in the scope of things.
Mac or PC? Important to the respective companies, to be sure; but give me either and I’ll get the job done. Number of Twitter followers or Facebook friends? Great possibilities; but not near as important as how you treat those you’re connected to -- online or face-to-face.
Pro sports contract negotiations, college bowl selections -- 90% of what fills an hour of sports talk radio or sports center highlights -- important to the individuals and enterprises they touch, yes. But is the amount of time invested by many of us on such issues just a bit out of proportion?
Red state, blue state, left side of the aisle, right side of the brain -- are the things we invest so much time cussing and discussing -- are these things as important as the time we spend on them?
This is not to say that purchasing decisions, the thrill of victory and the body politic don’t warrant attention, or to suggest they have no importance.
But (thankfully) every so often I am reminded that it is more important to be quiet for a moment, and consider what really matters.
Time with friends and family really matters.
Experiencing what happens to human beings when we give of ourselves -- this is important. Nothing will change a community more quickly. I would certainly do better to shift some of my sports or political talk time to efforts here.
And simply pausing for a few minutes -- maybe for a day -- to consider the very few things that really matter -- this is one of the most important things we can do today.

Friday, September 9, 2011

Reflections On The Moments That Remind Us What Matters Most

There are some moments that demand more than their fair share of attention.
Or perhaps the truth is that some moments have a way of forcing us to focus on the things that deserve much more of our attention.
Every parent I know experiences this focus-adjustment the first time we hold, look into the eyes, or hear the voice of our child. Even in the throws of apprehension, uncertainty and outright fear, there is a clarity in that moment. An understanding that, notwithstanding all that swirls about us, few things will ever matter more than the care and nurture of this person. Thankfully there are additional moments along the way that remind and refocus.
Not all such moments of focus and clarity are born of joy.
We approach the tenth anniversary of the unthinkable terror and unspeakable tragedy that captured us the morning of September 11, 2001. In that hour, and in countless moments following, the hole in our hearts reminded us that -- in spite of all that consumes our days -- few things really matter. For a season we were kinder to each other.
Between the joy of beginnings and the hole in the heart that comes with loss, if we’re lucky, we experience our fair share of moments that remind us that what matters most is the relationships we share, the lives we touch. What we do here endures. The compassionate ear, the unconditional gift.
Relationships transcend time and space. Nurtured, the rewards are immeasurable. This is what matters most. Most of us know it. We just lose our focus.
We will always be distracted by jobs, mortgage payments, the politic of the moment, and even the game of the weekend.
But can we find a way to focus on what matters most, apart from the moments of extreme? Might we be more attuned to the everyday moments that vie for our attention and underscore our best intentions?
The reward for devoting attention to the things that really matter? The only thing that endures.

Friday, December 3, 2010

What Really Matters?

Some things simply are not important in the scope of things.
Mac or PC? Important to the respective companies, to be sure; but give me either and I’ll get the job done. Number of Twitter followers or Facebook friends? Great possibilities; but not near as important as how you treat those you’re connected to -- online or face-to-face.
Pro sports contract negotiations, college bowl selections -- 90% of what fills an hour of sports talk radio or sports center highlights -- important to the individuals and enterprises they touch, yes. But is the amount of time invested by many of us on such issues just a bit out of proportion?
Red state, blue state, left side of the aisle, right side of the brain -- are the things we invest so much time cussing and discussing -- are these things (or are the conversations we’re having about them) as important as the time we spend on them?
This is not to say that purchasing decisions, the thrill of victory and the body politic don’t warrant attention, or to suggest they have no importance.
But (thankfully) every so often I am reminded that it is more important to be quiet for a moment, and consider what really matters.
Time with friends and family really matters.
Experiencing what happens to human beings when we give of ourselves -- this is important. Nothing will change a community more quickly. I would certainly do better to shift some of my sports or political talk time to efforts here.
What others think of you is rarely as important as what you, deep in your heart, think of yourself.
And simply pausing for a few minutes to consider the very few things that really matter -- this is one of the most important things we can do today.